By being honest, you "flush out" the women who aren't a fit for you, leaving only the ones who are genuinely attracted to the real you. It saves months of time and emotional energy. 4. Practical Steps to Attract Through Honesty

Instead of "pretending" to be a friend while hoping for more, be clear. A simple, "I thought you were beautiful and I wanted to come talk to you," is more powerful than any rehearsed line because it is the truth. C. Own Your Flaws

You aren't "investing" in a specific outcome. You are willing to walk away if the real you isn't a match for her.